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Hi! I'm Woofer's Pup! Please don't get all bent out of shape - it's just a nickname! It does not imply that I am a dog, or that I am owned by anyone. Robb and I have a very equal and mutually satisfying relationship. The majority of my friends just call me Al. I have many passions in life that I like to share with Robb, with my friends and with the world. For some periodic thoughts - check out my new online journal!

I consider myself an average guy with an ability to create friends no matter where I go. A 36 year old divorced father of two beautiful kids, I moved to Dallas in August of 2004 after 6 plus years in Canada.

Having been on a path of self discovery for years, I landed in Dallas to start an new adventure. An Interior Designer by trade and experience, writer and photographer by hobby, I'm also a lover of art and music and my tastes are quite eclectic. See my business website here!

An evolution has occurred in my life over the past few years where I have become more spiritually grounded and more mature in my ways of life. Never much of a drinker, and not into drugs, I found it hard to fit into the gay landscape of Dallas. I am no barfly, circuit boi, crackhead or pnp participant.

My party days have faded, and the thrill of a smoky gay bar has lost its lustre. Today I'm more focused on building quality friendships and a network for my business. I very much dislike pretense and lies, and tend to stay away from hypocrites and those who instigate problems, mayhem and drama.

Being a father taught me many things and made me grateful for a part of my life that many ask "Don't you regret the time you spent married?" For those with that kind of thought process, I have no answer. They probably wouldn't "get it" anyway!

I'm also easily annoyed at what is usually the first question..."Are you BI, Gay or what?" Does it matter? Must we label everything? Or the other question... "how big is it?" Does that really matter? Let me just say it is more than enough to get the job done!
So... if all you want to discuss is sex, looks, money, drugs, materialism and gay drama, I'd rather not chat. I am more interested in what's on the inside of a person.

Having been raised within a severe religious background, like so many gay men in the southern US, I struggled with coming out. Thankfully the morals I was taught by my family were more helpful than the fundamentalist crap that overloaded our minds as kids. I have spent a number of years developing the spiritual side of my being, as opposed to the "religious" side, as it felt more like the "real" me. I continue that each day, learning as I go.

Today I am blessed to have met my soulmate. A man of honor and integrity, not to mention being such a HOT WOOFER!! We are beginning to grow through this life together, enjoying the adventure. Such peace is almost impossible to explain when you find your are standing hand-in-hand with the man who loves you and respects you as his equal. I love him!

I am not online every day, but if you would like to chat, feel free to leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can. Also, bookmark this page and come back to see updates if you are interested! Also check out my gallery here!

Cheers!
- wp